Plan 5-10 minutes at the end of each activity for clean-up. Signal with a consistent keyword, phrase, or song. Practice for several months before adding another activity.

Age

Start at: 1 year

Frequency

after each activity

Practice Duration

2-3 months

Plan 2-5 minutes to pick up dirty clothes and place them in the clothes hamper.

Age

Start at: 1 year and 3 months (15 months)

Frequency

after each clothes change

Practice Duration

2-3 months

Anytime trash is generated, have your child deliver it to the trash receptacle.  Make sure to use the consistent code word “trash” so there are no mix-ups.

Age

Start at: 1 year and 6 months (18 months)

Frequency

upon generating trash

Practice Duration

2-3 months

Sometimes, to clean up a mess, you must make one first.  Make a fort with couch cushions, then plan 5 minutes to clean it up.

Age

Start at: 1 year and 9 months (21 months)

Frequency

whenever couch cushions are out of place

Practice Duration

2-3 months

3-5 minutes after meal-time is perfect for everyone from age 2+ years to deliver their plate and utensils to the dishwasher.

Age

Start at: 2 years (24 months)

Frequency

after each meal

Practice Duration

2-3 months

Have them stand at the dishwasher and hand you the clean dishes.  You can have it unloaded in 5-10 minutes.

Age

Start at: 2 years and 3 months (27 months)

Frequency

after the dishwasher is done

Practice Duration

2-3 months